Make a date for Lovemaking

By Diane and Kerry Riley

Your obviously interested in improving your lovemaking knowledge and you have come to the right place.

Now this tip we are about to give you might sound really simple, but believe us, it will make your woman feel amazing!!

What we suggest is to make a date for lovemaking, at least once a week, or a fortnight, or whatever is comfortable for you. What I mean by 'a date for lovemaking', not that you wouldn't make love other times, but this is planned time in advance when you both make the commitment to organise your tasks, or to set aside two or three hours or more if you can for each other just sexually.

Now some people would say 'Oh, well lovemaking should be spontaneous otherwise I'm just not interested.' Well I'm suggesting to you that sex can be like planning a fabulous dinner.

Sometimes with spontaneity, you have these great ideas, and you get interrupted by a knock on the door, the kids crying, the phone, and all of sudden some emergency is happening. If it is planned and you take the time to really make sure all these other issues are dealt with, or the kids are looked after. Then you know you have this time together, you're planning ahead for it during the week.

It's like making a date to go to the theatre and enjoying the anticipation of it, reminding each other of it, and talking about the wonderful time you are going to have together when you do have this date. So you can organise for the children to sleep over at friends, or get them to bed really early, or something can be organised.

If you want something to happen and you have your intention there, you can organise it. Or the business matters are arranged so that you have a free day, and then when the agreed time comes you have to go through with that commitment.

What happens is men are often afraid that their partner is going to be too tired, or have a headache, or whatever it is, and that physical intercourse wont happen. So his sexual temperature rises even more, so often the sight of his woman's naked body is enough to have him just totally aroused, so as soon as any penetration takes place he has come and gone and the situations lost to you.

So it needs to be done where you both are sure this time is going to be committed to each other, but it's done in a relaxed atmosphere of talking, holding, touching, and encompassing everything that making love is. A process of discovering what being love is, and what loving another human being can be.

Even if your single you can plan "a date for lovemaking". What we suggest to make this time extra special is put some nice flowers in the room, play some nice music and burn incense. Trust us, she will love it!!!

Of course, more tips and techniques are included in "Sexual Secrets for Men" e-book at http://www.sexualsecretsformen.com

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